Hi Jan Of course women cheat! and its always the same stuff. I think I am well justified to consider very seriously that I was probably cheated on, and yes, I dont have any hard evidence to confirm it, but the probability is very strong considering the nature of his behaviour even to this day, when anything around the subject comes up. He starts talking to my cousin about our relationship. Mam please tell me how can i know that he is telling the truth. He was wonderful. My neighbor across the street said to me that he had sex with a woman when I confronted him he said she was a lier. If your wife is suspicious of you, its because you are behaving suspiciously. Act like you are even if you dont feel it yet. It sounds like youre very confused and upset I know I would be! Is it me? When we got to the wake she comes in and he goes up to her and ask me if I know her and I again I said no. Instead, remove yourself from the situation. I had two small children, too, and I moved on from me cheating husband. Men lie plain and simple my husband and I have not even been married a full month I have caught him red handed LYING about a few things. 7 weeks later I received a call from the police wanted to (talk) to me2 questions later I was arrested for hassasment which was later dismissed. I asked him numerous questions about his new secretary His reply, give me a break,shes 28 yrs old. Its just who he is and unfortunately Im learned to accept that. Id always said, I NEVER in a million years go with a married man! It was WRONG! Men who are risk-takers or easily sexually aroused are also more likely to wander; for women, relationship issues are stronger predictors of unfaithfulness. This October woukd have been my 20 year anniversary. Prepare for His Reaction. The advice i wil give to you guys stay focus and think deep in your heart what you want if you want to suffer for the rest of your live or you want trust, bright future ahead. Spaces fill up quickly for this course. We are dynamic creatures being women. He saw that it bothered me and did nothing about it. i confronted him he says she is like a little sister to him and he feels when they r out of town he has to protect her from weird guys. ive tried talking to one of his exes but he got super mad and blocked her from anything and everything but he still talks to her. Well i went to counseling, tried to turn other cheek, live what bible says about forgiveness ,we even MOVED out of state. While Im still here??!!! If youre afraid hel lie to you about it.. you can catch him in the act. Please help with words of in courgment. but yes it is wrong. Its off limites to me! Love advice for women and men, couples, and singles looking for love. OH! WellI have no way of knowing if your husband and sister are both lying about cheatingbut I think you need to listen to your gut instincts. I am truly sorry and know your pain I am going through divorce its hard as hell going back to school further my education moving to FL after divorce .. please take care of yourself and know your not alone hugs .. I will include a couple links to give you ideas. Right? Men love to look at younger, better bodied women. He finally deleted his Facebook account because it caused a lot of problems in our marriage. Im 36 years old, him 38. now he blames me for everything that goes wrong in his life,for instance about 2weeks ago he got the windscreen of his brand new car smashed by one of his girlfriends leading to a police case and guess who he blames? Pushing yourself to come up with answers . Should I keep trying to save this relationship or just cut my loses. I left my husband 5 years ago because I found out he was cheating and lying, and I am so glad that part of my life is over. Sometimes we cant see reality because were too busy, preoccupied, tired, or even not ready to face the truth. He cheated many times on his previous women while in relationships. They dont have childrenHe is still cheating wht a woman named Cecilia for the past 9 years. Ive been willing to work, but am growing impatient and feeling more and more like I should just leave. In this situation, you might hear a comment like: "I know that my husband has been cheating with a coworker. I cant even say i understand my husband anymore. She wants to trust you, but your behavior is causing pain. I was telling him something is going on and even though I dont kknow what it is, I dont like the feeling I get. And I have been married for 8 years and I have 2 chidren and one bein born in may.. i think that he is cheating on mw. and heres the kicker, so what? He tells me he cant keep doing these daily talks because he has told me everything and doing so will hurt our relationship further. Nov 21,2013 I found out my husband was cheating on me. Im hurt like no other knowing my love of my life has done this to me. She passed away at 26 from AIDS. Well needless to say last year the day after my daughters one year birthday party I found out that this woman was pregnant by my boyfriend. He went to great lengths to make me feel secure. Yes, I may get jelous pretty easily about one picture. He went from 400 or so text a month, to almost 2000 text during the affair. Just saw a motivational video that said to always stay in the present. I waiting and waiting until Feb 21, I told his wife. But it did. I do think a man would be crazy to give up a woman who offers what you suggest. I hope that helps. Hope for Healing Registration Soon! However, after he calmed down, he apologized and said he is not sick of me. Like you, I have a successful career and he stays home. I know she wants him just by the way she moved away from him really fast when I walked over to him. i also foung his cell phone with very graffic details from the girl & ny husband. This can be infuriating, especially when you feel that you're working really hard to make some concessions and he won't even give enough to admit what you already know is true. and of course we have always been good in bed! Can a cheating spouse, male or female, be so remorseful that they stop,some do. I know what youre experiencing. What really can devastate a relationship is stinky feet. bs 3. some people cheat because its accessible nothing youve done wrong. Driver calls this the belly button rule.When were telling the truth and are with people we like, admire, and trust, we face our belly buttons towards them. There is too much detail to go into on that. To not have their lies be uncovered or mixed up. Hi Kim, I recently had a very similar experience with my long term boyfriend (13 years). I restrained myself and did not do it. I dont get it. Instead, it might go something like this: you always disappear on our weekends off, you get too chummy and personal with the girls and women at work, you always talk about porn and strip clubs, you say you are the only decent man out there because every other man goes to strip clubs (talk about projection), you oversexualize every woman instead of them just being flakes or incompetent, these other women in your life must be damaged because they have been molested, you talk about your ex-girlfriends, ex-wives or female coworkers all the time, she found naked pictures of women on your phone or computer and you said they were sent by some unwanted entity resulting from an underwear search, you hid something relating to sex from her before you were married and now she cant completely trust you, and the list goes on. What does your gut tell you about your husband? DO NOT click search! Thanks. Ive put up with a lying, alcoholic, cheating, emotionally abusive asshole of a husband for 8 years. anyway this was a year ago, but now recent months we have had so much quarrels and argues and that has made him to be even more passive when it comes to our relationship. He gets angry, swears its a lie, and doesnt want to discuss it anymore. Are there any signs that he might be? None of which we use together. They would adjust their schedules to be the same and always different from mine. I heard a text come thru. Its difficult to be in a relationship like this, especially when ex-wives and children are involved. I am even pregnant, I have unpacked my bags because I cant stand going on a four days vacation with him knowing he just cheated on me. They dont typically do it to have a brood of offspring from different menalthough that might be a part of the reason at a subconscious level. Come on though it is hard ot accept if theres someone texting with kisses and its NOT you its someone he finds that appropriate with, and he doesnt trust you to look on his phone now? While he continues to live here. Moreover, he claims to plant false evidence on his own Google account but that it would be surely fake, as a form of retribution. Then deeply breathe and say really? I do love him but do not want to go further with someone who cant make me feel safe. Its been three weekend now hes been going the Saturday and coming back the Sunday. One night after returning from taking care of my mother, we got home , and he asked me to do something. His dreams are never happy he says. Kind of like for me if he can't admit it I'll never move past it. One time, it ws just the beginning of us, I saw a log book in the marine house, where all the marines had to write down their guests. Im sorry for what you went through with your husband. When I nag, then he buys me things. I dont know what to do and its driving me insane to always be wondering whats going on. All she could say that its highly unlikely that it could be anything else but there is always that >1% or freak chance that isnt documented. Anyway, for the last 3yrs he kept talking and texting the girl that posted pics of them kissing and being together on facebook. To this day he still denies having sex with the woman, but a known fact via text messages was that the taxed secretly from his work phone and where planning to meet up on one or her days off of work I had to work really hard but I forgave him and tried to move on but everytime I think about it I feel like Im being lied to again. Some CASH and even a prepaid debit card (he cant trace), your important documents, somewhere you can go if you dont feel safe, someone who wont give your hideout away. Whats this really? But most every night i stay wide awake. i have been only married for a year and my husband is bi-sexual since he started this new job he has been giving a female coworker a ride to work even though she lives right down the street from their job but it is cold outside but he always calls her or text her after i leave for work. The biggest in your face, a ha i got you was not good though walked in on my husband cheating with the other woman. In October of 2015, I went on a five day vacation with my daughter. Cheating starts with friendly online flirtations, emails, texts. And I can't handle it. I am so sorry to hear this. Honey, I know you dont want to hear this, but PLEASE get away from him while you are young and still can!! Is it okay to say that generally men dont require commitment the way a woman does? I thought-what a coward. He said how can we do anything with her Dad and his friend there. A couple days later I asked him if he was thinkin about being with someone else. My husband is very smart so he can hide sum of the signs like wen he kums home he stil wants to hav sex but he always accuses me of things, hell kum home and look at the bed and snoop around, hes always saying im liying about sumthing or that im cheating. What tracker did you use for his phone? He is not a nice man. What do you want your husband to know about how you feel about the texts hes sending his ex? Just a week before I said to him that if someone came up to me and said you cheated on me I would not believe them I trust you 150% and he looked at me with love eyes.
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